16 Jun
Tiaras – classy or chavvy?
Jamie Mordaunt
Whilst assembling the diamondthrills jewellery collection I’ve been thinking about tiaras. Should we feature them? Are they right for diamondthrills? Would people hire a diamond tiara for their wedding day?
The prospect of tiaras throws up a bit of a conundrum. On the one hand, a tiara can be a classy piece of bridal jewellery, but then again, they can be – well, let’s try to put this politely – tiaras can be a bit chavvy. OK, I didn’t put that politely, but I think the point is made. [non-UK readers who need a bit of help with 'chavvy' - click here]
Search for tiaras online and you get a long list of bridal accessory suppliers offering up diamante / crystal / rhinestone creations, sometimes promising a handmade tiara, more often not looking handmade at all but apparently mass produced in the Far East and yours for well under £100, perhaps as little as £10 or £20.
Mostly these tiaras will be used at weddings as bridal jewellery, perhaps adorning bridesmaids or flower girls as well as the beaming bride. Tiaras are also worn at beauty pageants, although thankfully these are less commonplace here in the UK than they are across the Atlantic.
Now this kind of thing is clearly a long way from the more traditional upscale place of tiaras in high society.
Tiaras actually started out as a form of ‘diadem’ or crown – specifically a high crown – in ancient Assyria, Mesopotamia and Egypt. They were sometimes made of leather or fabric, and richly ornamented.
Tiaras are reported to have adorned the heads of royal mummies in Egypt, and they were used by the Greeks to crown statues. Tiaras were awarded to victors of sporting contests and used to signify rank and status by the Romans.
The Catholic Church adopted the tiara as an adornment for its Pope – the Papal Tiara, a high cap surrounded by three crowns with a globe surmounted by a cross. The Papal Tiara was last worn by Paul VI who was Pope from 1963 to 1978.
Tiaras were worn by women of the court in Napoleonic France, and the growing prosperity of the 19th century saw tiaras become more popular across Europe and with Russian aristocracy. The 19th century was also the time when tiaras first became associated with weddings.
The Queen is said to have the largest and most valuable – probably priceless – collection of tiaras in the world, many of which are heirlooms of the British Royal family. Queen Victoria and Queen Alexandra (queen consort to Edward VII) were both avid fans and wearers of tiaras.
The modern tiara is usually a semi-circular band made of metal and decorated with all kinds of jewels, gems, beads etc. Tiaras are generally used on very formal or high social occasions, which for most of us means weddings.
Which brings us back to tiaras and diamondthrills. Of course brides do wear diamond tiaras on their wedding day but these are often family heirlooms. It’s not yet apparent to us that there is any demand for hiring diamond tiaras for weddings (or indeed for beauty pageants…), whereas we do know that demand exists for hiring earrings, necklaces/pendants and bracelets/bangles.
So the diamondthrills collection of fine diamond jewellery will not, at least initially, include any tiaras.
What do you think? Should we think about adding diamond tiaras to the collection? Would that be classy or chavvy? Tell us what you think!
Two more random things about tiaras before I sign off from this post –
1. Tiara is used a popular girl’s name in many places around the world (apparently especially popular amongst models from Malaysia/Indonesia)
2. Probably the most notable deployment of a tiara in fiction: superheroine Wonderwoman is usually shown wearing a tiara, but she wears hers across her forehead rather than perched on top of the head. Wonderwoman also put her ‘magic tiara’ to use as a weapon: a deadly boomerang.
Additional material from Wikipedia.
Archived in: Jewellery, Miscellaneous
Lorraine Burns
June 19, 2009 at 11:37 pm
In principal, I think the idea of hiring a tiara is a good one. Almost every bride will wear a tiara, and in all honesty, I don’t know anyone who has worn one, or even had one, as a family heir loom, although that’s a lovely, romantic idea. A lot of brides may not want to wear a old fashioned tiara, heir loom or not. To wear or nor to wear? Yes, wear a tiara.
But, it all depends on the tiara. Yes you can buy a tiara for £25 from Debenhams, which will probabbly look cheap, tacky, and cut into your skull so you have to take it off after a couple of hours. And thousands of other brides are wearing the same tiara.
Yes you can buy a handmade tiara from the internet and maybe pay £100 to £150. And it’s teeming with fancy crystals to add to the tacky look, some brides go for this, they haven’t quite got the “less is more” attitude yet.
So, I don’t think tiaras on the whole are chavvy. It depends on the tiara. Personally, rather than pay £100+ for a possibly dodgy, handmade tiara which may not last a lifetime, and let’s face it, a lot of brides pass on or sell their tiaras after the wedding. I’d rather pay £150 – £200 to hire a beautiful, quality, sophisticated, simple, contemporary tiara and feel like a princess for a day, than pay the same amount to own a cheap piece of tat.
I think it would be a good idea to hire out some simple tiaras, not the twee, old fashioned styles. If ladies want twee, they can use the heir loom.
It’s too much bling, (real or not) what makes it look chavvy!
Best Wishes, Lorraine
Emma Cartwright
June 20, 2009 at 5:46 pm
I would have to agree with Lorraine. I am currently looking for jewelry for my wedding this year, and have decided tiara, no veil. I have looked at several to buy, but they range from cheap and tacky to far too expensive for a few hours wear. I think hiring a simple sophisticated tiara, for £100+, will mean I look fab on the day, but then don’t have to stress that I will never wear it again!!
Thanks, Emma
Lorraine Burns
June 23, 2009 at 7:17 pm
And I agree with Emma! These days more brides are going for the tiara without the veil, especially for civil ceremonies. I think a veil sometimes just covers the top of the dress, which can be adorned with pearls etc, and hides your jewellery.I also think a veil would detract from the beauty of a tiara. And, a veil is just something else to fuss about, and what if it’s a windy day? A bride has enough to stress about as it is!
I’ve been doing a lot of research into this myself as I am just on the brink of setting up my own online jewellery business, but not in the same league as this site. I honestly think there’s nothing to beat real diamonds, and if you can afford to hire, go for it!
Emma, good luck for the wedding and have a fantastic day!
Jamie Mordaunt
June 24, 2009 at 11:30 am
Lorraine, good luck with your online jewellery business and your website.
And thanks to you both for taking the time to read my post and comment upon it.
Jamie
Sally Ward
September 27, 2009 at 12:27 pm
Hello I love your range of jewellery. I make bespoke tiaras and most brides go for the understated look and love some sparkle. Brides like to have matching pieces of jewellery so I think small co-ordinated tiaras and bands would be popular. Vintage pieces are very popular too. I think its the wearer that makes the tiara so I would say yes add a small select few, simple in design, light and comfortable to wear. Sally